What Was Once Love Has Turned & It Hurts

You have a relationship with a person that you are supposed to be in love with. If that in love phase has past you still have to realize you loved this person at one point. Having feelings that you thought this person might be the one. At times your words and actions can be a relationships worst enemy. You may even get to the point you purposely want to hurt this person for all the hurt they have thrown your way. Even when you are heading to the end you continue to you kick them when they are down as they do with you. When does it become too much and you have to put a stop to it and realize you have to be civil and stop hurting one another. Many times this never comes and you both end up leaving both of you wounded, crushed and broken hearted. At any point you both could have stopped it but you punch till their bruised and it doesn’t mean a care to you. Not literally but you hurt someone to the core, in their gut until they are down and can’t get up. Does your conscious ever feel sorry, even to step in and admit you were wrong, even if you both were? Can you walk away knowing you hurt someone so tremendously, leaving them devastated? How did two people get this far that you almost hate one another, and can you do something to cut you loses in a kinder manner.  When you do leave your partner and hopefully take time regroup will it ever hit you how you behaved. Will it ever come to mind how can you treat someone so poorly and leave without a thought of remorse? If this sounds like your relationship, I hope it gives you the thought to rethink how you are treating the person that you have said “I love you to”. If you are not saying I love you and you feel as it is over, go out gracefully and with kindness. It will give your mate the feeling that maybe you can both leave the relationship cordial. Barbara Jeanne xo