Dating Etiquette, Steps To Getting What You Want (Part 2)

I promised to myself that I would try to be honest as possible without hurting the ladies or the guys too much. I have to say I have done much research myself many years since college all the way up to this very minute. Okay, now men say they want to meet a nice girl and settle down but I see that men aren’t doing right by us ladies all the time. They are interest and the may come forward but then guys act flaky. Guys do not know how to treat a girl but because so many women accept so little they are learning they can get away with not treating a lady as she should be treated. Like a man asking a beautiful girl out that he meets in person on a date and then saying what do you want to do hang out at your house or mine? Are you kidding come on men? A lady on line saw a man that was looking to meet a woman and their was a women that was interested in him. She sent him a message and the man told her he drank a lot. When I asked him why you would say this, he said he was kidding but then I looked at his profile and he had written his life sucked, he was making 8.50 an hour and continued on and on about his life in such negative direction. This is too much information to give away before you talk to a potential date interest. I am by no way saying all men behave this way but many men I feel just don’t have the standards that yesterday men used to have. The manners they had especially if they liked a girl. You do not have to take a girl to the most expensive place given this economy but you do have to take her out. Ice Cream and a walk on the board walk. A bite to eat and a walk in the park, and when you do get extra money take her someplace nice if you like her. Women don’t expect all men can wine and dine you. If that is what you want then look for a man with money and enjoy. Women all know that you wouldn’t want to spend hundreds of dollars on a man. If you are infatuated in a man, woman do in fact do this and in this case stop and get help. I think we need to go back to some old fashion values, rethink of some of the good old ways that have gotten lost but worked in helping two people connect. To relearn how to treat a person with kindness and tenderness is what helps makes a successful relationship. Couples need to learn that an important part of making a healthy relationship is to give and take. To treat the person you love with respect and talk to one another as so. With some simple changes to show you care. We might be able to get back two people to connect and maybe work into having a loving healthy long term relationship. Barbara Jeanne xo