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Friday
Jul272012

Dating Etiquette, People Do Want Always & Forever...Here's How (Pt1)

So many people are asking me to find them a mate. Almost desperate to find their always and forever, they ask me not to just find anybody; many men are asking me to find them a wife. The funny thing is that more men are approaching me asking for help. So although we can say both genders are having a problem connecting, men want to be in a relationship, so that’s good news for women. But why are men and women having such a problem connecting? Both genders seem they are having problems right out of the gate. For many it seems very hard for them to get a person that wants to meet and start up a relationship. When a person is single they fall in their own ways of living. Almost not realizing some of the things they do are a bit strange. Other want a relationship but put little effort in pursuing the person they are interested in. Also many times men and women both have this issue, going for many people at the same time. It’s okay when you are new on the dating scene not to rush into another relationship. Talking to several people isn’t wrong when you are trying to get back into the swing of things. If you have been on for a while without any success you need to reevaluate what may be going on that you haven’t landed yourself a date. Are you really looking for a live person, or just someone to talk to? Someone stupid enough to not realize you are just trying to pass the time away during the evening. As I said before some people become serial pre relationship people. This is where a person stays content just talking with very little interest of really meeting the person. Also many times one of the people you are talking to sees that you are on line and you are talking to someone else and not them. This is leaving them upset and probably a bit angry. So when you do have a conversation with them this is in the back of their mind. You see in their mind many feel they already are having a relationship of some kind with you. So you need to make it clear what your intentions are so you don’t hurt anyone’s feelings. Remember don’t do to another what you would not like done to you. If you have moved on into a relationship and you are having a relationship with several people, it would be kind of you to send them a quick note, or even better tell them when you talk that you have met someone and want to give them the respect to know. Don’t play a person and try not to hurt feelings. Remember what goes around comes around and it always goes in one way or another. Barbara Jeanne xo (Part One)

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