Need to Talk? Right Time & Looking Your Best... Is Key

You’re mad as hell at your significant other. Maybe because they disappointed you, maybe they didn’t do something they were supposed to. It could even be you want to talk about your relationship not knowing where you two stand. Any questions that are of importance should be done in person. You can see what their reaction is first off. Second they can’t run away or leave as easy as it would be to hang up. Definitely do not try to text it. You will be more upset if they don’t even have the courtesy to text you back. I would do it only in person no matter how long it may take to see the person. If you are in a long distance relationship and you are having a lot of trouble or seeing red flags this is a good point to bow out and maybe find someone closer or new.  Another good reason doing it in person it doesn’t allow them to get back to you after they had time to think.  People can be rather cold when they do not want to talk or feel as if they are getting backed into a corner. As well as if they know they are wrong. One important factor is when you go into battle you have a better chance at the outcome being more successful with you looking good. So when you know you are going to have any type of serious talk, such as the break up talk. Do you still love me talk, or why did you do something that hurt me so. When they see you looking good they may have a second thought. I am not talking sexual. That does nothing. I mean be sweet and let them realize what they might be losing. Many people are hasty and can’t hold off which is a big mistake. Talk only when you feel in your heart the time is right it can make a difference of what the outcome might be. Barbara Jeanne xo