We Need to Reconnect With Your Partner (Don't Think There's All That Out Here)

We need to relearn how to treat people and more so how to treat our mate. We rag, nag, are lazy, talk down and show very little care which is very disturbing, given the fact that this is the person you are supposed to love and have their back. It’s sad that men seem to get tired of their ladies and ladies tend to treat their man as a child. I’m not sure why women feel the need to speak to her man as he is useless and the man hates it so much he acts useless. There are those women that are too nice and bend over backwards and it seems only to get hurt by their man by being taken for granted. We need to learn to connect on a deeper loving level and stop pointing the figure at one another and realize it take two people to make a beautiful union and two people to break it. Unless one has cheated and in my book this is one that is never acceptable but you have to take under consideration your feeling and how much you love this person. For the last couple decade’s people are not seeing the loyalty in their own homes. Single parents, broken home and even talking about their closest friend in front of their children, this is showing lack of loyalty.

We need to treat one another we love, care, respect and basically how we would like to be treated. Friends as well are having trouble being there for their closest friend some when it comes to their partner it’s just not there. So to begin with we need to bring these qualities into your relationship you have a better chance of having a healthy, happier relationship. If you have children or when we do it gives them a better base how to treat not only friends but the person they are in love with. Speaking to them with respect is a good start and a better way to communicate. You will get further talking out a problem or something you don’t like that your man is doing than screaming which the man usually shuts down. And as for women, they just get bitter until they had enough and usually move on before you know it. In fact many times before your man knows it women tend to move on. So, to save what you have and you might have a good thing. All you really need is to be caring and nice, if that is too hard you must be moving on to another person.    It should not be hard to show love to the person you say I love you to and if it is something is not right. Barbara Jeanne xo