On Line Relationships (When It Might Be Going Too Far)

So many people form on line friendships. Sometimes you may even build some sort of bond. You are both friendly, but don’t know one another, but still may think of a person and if they are doing okay. This would be absolutely wonderful if you didn’t have a significant other. When it is a friendship turning into a relationship and at what point might you say that is may be too much, and may be going too far? So what exactly am I trying to get at? When would you say you are having an on line relationship. It depends what your intentions are and that you both are on the same page, which is friends and nothing more. You can become friendly and consider them someone you may care about as you would a person of your same gender.  You may find that you enjoy talking just as you might think of girls with your girlfriend and guys with your buddy. When you cross the line and your curiosity is getting the best of you and your mind is wondering what it might be to be together. If this is the case your feelings may be getting too deep and you have gone too far. So you have to wonder why you are on line talking with this one person and not sitting with the person you say “I love you to”. If you feel that you are looking for something else you need to do some soul searching. Be honest with yourself and see what your relationship is lacking. Now remember the person across the computer can be all talk, someone completely not who they say they are. The pictures can be old, they can be older, heavier and may even be in a relationship but they don’t want to tell you. So please don’t have in your mind, you got yourself a cutie and only if. Only if you could you would just leave your relationship and all this crazy crap going on in your mind. Stop before you get too far. First off how would you feel if your love would be getting in as deep as you are? Next you need to make a decision are you in or out of your relationship that you are in. Before you start talking sexual you need to really think twice. Make a choice because this behavior is wrong and not appropriate. Yes you can have people you grow to care how they are and maybe their well-being but to think that you want them for a partner you crossed the line and need to do the right thing. Barbara Jeanne xo