Good Old Fashion Morals to Find Yourself a Good Partner

True Story, what is your take on this? We have a girl that wants to find love. Her birthday comes up and her ex-boyfriend travels across the country to surprise her. Not only to say happy birthday but to take her on a shopping spree, out for an expensive all out dinner and a night at a high end hotel. In the mist of all this he is also making a point to treat her like a true princess. He stated that this was her day and she could have anything she wanted. The problem was since he arrived she was treating him like crap. She would snap and talk down to him. When they went shopping, she didn’t even take time to try clothes on. She was pulling them from the rack, because the return value is always a plus to get cash back. She didn’t appreciate a thing. And to boot she brought her friends along for their intimate dining. Finally a friend did speak up to make her aware of how horrible she was treating this guy that flew across the country to spend time and money on her special day.

 So many people act like this when they are not really interested in a person. The problem is that many people accept this behavior instead of speaking up and when they do finally speak up, they are hurt and broken down. Why, because when we really like someone we put up with crap that we wouldn’t take from anyone else. What is worse is that to the person that is treating you like crap knows it and it is a turn off to them that you would accept this behavior from them. Most people are drawn to a confident strong person. The ones that go for the weak is usually because they like to feel superior or they may like to bully. Either way this behavior is absolutely wrong. People should be ashamed of themselves to treat anyone like this. That can make the most beautiful person ugly. We need to step back and see how we treat people. How do you treat the opposite sex? Do you treat them with respect? Are you only interested in those that can do for you or those that you really like? We need to think back to what we were taught as children. Remember this one…If you don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say anything at all, or don’t do to others what you would not like done to you. I could go on and on there are so many. The point is we need to start treating people with common courtesy. If you don’t like a person, be nice enough to let them go so they can find someone that will want them and treat them with kindness and love. You may not think they are worth much but what’s one person junk is another person’s treasure. Also why is at some point when you see them looking good walking with their new honey, you can’t help to think, “They wanted me first”, or “Maybe I should of given them a chance”. If more people were up front from the get go and if you didn’t like someone be honest enough to say, “You’re sweet but I don’t like you like that” they would be trying so hard for you to like them. They do have a good feeling be nice to just confirm. Did you ever hear of good karma? Good things will come to you if you do the right thing. Barbara Jeanne xo