Meeting On Social Sites Still Seems Hard to Connect: Tips to be More Successful

All those men and women looking for a relationship on line have more hurdles than they might think. You ask why? First off you don’t know really know much about them except what they tell you and the picture they have up. Many times the pictures aren’t quite who they look like and that is a major problem. You could of talk for months and gotten close but if they meet you and you aren’t what they thought many times after that meeting you can say goodbye for good. Because they are a goner, so it’s better to be honest if you believe you will meet at some time. If you have gained weight, change in any way or if you are in a relationship be honest. On line can be strange in the sense that you can talk and think things are going in a positive direction with and individual. Many people feel as if they are in a relationship and feel a closeness but they can be saying the same to another or many so be aware. They can hook you and people fall in love without meeting and this is a mighty big risk to take to begin with. Next you have the fact that many are married, in a relationship or in no way interested in being in a meaningful relationship. Yet this is what comes out of their mouths when they are in pursuit of a person they want. But what I see and hear many times are these people that do meet and become intimate ends as quickly as they met. Many times after the challenge of conquering this person they are back on line surfing the net. Instead of heading into a relationship many times it turns into a casual encounter. So many times what some or one thought was going to be a happy ending and no not sexual but with being a couple actually takes a turn for the worse. It stings when you see the person that you have been talking to, or intimate on line checking out others. The best way to have a chance of being successful at on line dating of any type of site that you can mingle is first off be single. Next off be honest and if you lose interest or move on have the decency to let them know, just don’t disappear. To disappear without an explanation or just a simple goodbye is rude and if you were digging a person you would be hurt. So realize there is etiquette of on line dating but I don’t think that many people follow any guidelines. This causes many people to get hurt and many meetings not to come to be and those that do don’t work. Keep an open mind when meeting people. Remember a kind heart goes a long way. Great conversation takes it further. Looks is a major plus but an open mind gives you a wider range to search for your soul mate. Lastly remember if you are looking for a certain status, tall dark and handsome or a knockout bombshell make sure you are the same. Good luck and happy searching. Barbara Jeanne xo