Living with a stranger? Time to Change That!
Sunday, February 20, 2011 at 02:17AM What happens when you are living with a person but they don't seem to be home? It seems as if you two are living under the same roof but have become so distance that it is almost like you are doing the motions but with no emotion. As if the two of you have become strangers. So, what do you do? Is it too late to save a once happy union? First off you have to look at this person and ask yourself, do I love this person? Think back to happier times, that the two of you were in love and shared those special moments. Are you two the same people? If the answer is yes, then you need to sit with your partner, and ask what has happened. Tell your partner they don't seem to be in love with you, Ask them what they feel has happened, and tell them your feelings as well. If they are willing to sit and talk, that is half the battle. Talk about the things that brought the two of you together. I am so pro relationship, that I feel if the two of you were once in love that it is worth giving it a honest effort to stay together. There are times that it is time to throw in the towel, but especially if you said "I do", then you two had to have had something special at one time. Life is too short to spend alone. I do agree that it is better to be alone than to be in a bad relationship, but finding that special love, is essential in each and every one of our lives. It is what gets us up and going. Somewhere down the line your relationship changes and the relationship that you two once had...the I can't get enough of one another become a night with a lap top and your favorite TV show all alone. This is no way to live or ask yourself do you want to live like this, basically alone? So let us get back to how to get back that love you two once had. You both need to learn to reconnect. How do you do this? Take time to learn what the person likes. Reminisce about fun times. Those times that made you a couple. Touch one another. Touch those areas that you remember that your lover likes. For the ladies, take time to get yourself together and if you have the funds, go shopping. Go out and get a few outfits that say sexy without trying. Outfits to wear around the house that doesn't scream I want attention. You know what I mean that will make you man notice but not like you are trying. For the men, buy you lady something she likes. It doesn't have to be big. You can pick some flowers, buy her favorite sweets and don't wear you old sweat clothes like you don't give a crap. It's not how you were dressing when you were trying to win her over. Last of all, go out and have fun. If you have children, put them to bed early, or get a babysitter and go out. Talk, touch and slow dance, Even if you are home. Put on some slow music and feel each other’s body up against each other. If you are taking the time to do this, something is still there. Now you have to work on it. I do have to end that being in love feel absolutely amazing. There is not a better feeling in the world. Except...well...and that only last for a few minutes...xo Barbara Jeanne
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