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Behavior Keeps Your Man or Woman Staying & Keeping the Relationship Alive! (Article 2)

      Today men and women are having a tough time connecting. We all seem to think we are doing fine when we are hiding behind the computer talking up a storm. We might be thinking, I might have found the love of my life, but many times once the meeting does come, if it ever does the relationship seems to fizzle and quickly. Next we have the situation of meeting the person the old fashion way face to face. We might see what we like, and what we want but when it comes to actually liking them when we get to know, the relationship fades fast as it began. Last but not least we have the relationship that makes it to the point that you can call yourself a couple. But that soon seems to have troubles for many. Many I said, not for all. But enough to keep my business booming and to keep my email filled with people hoping to make their relationship to work with this person they gave their heart to. I’m not saying that I don’t love to help those that are looking or in need, because I truly do. But my question is why there is an overabundance of troubled couples that are in relationships. As well as an overabundance of people looking to be in love and not founding it or so they think. Not just not finding it but can’t seem to find a single person that is quite right. And lastly, the people that don’t know what the heck is going on in their relationship, because they don’t know or their partner doesn’t know what they want. But they feel in their gut something is just not right. The bottom line until we learn how to have a relationship and a healthy one we will continue to have broken hearts, unhappy couples and many single people wondering around in every direction for love. So what can be going wrong? Could it be the way we handle ourselves in a relationship. Some too clingy, too needy, others act as they don’t give a crap if this relationship works out or not. Many people go into a relationship just so they aren’t single but know they don’t love this person, at least not the way they should love a person in a healthy relationship. If we do find someone that we may say “yeah I might be able to achieve a good relationship with this one…this might just be the one, somehow we can’t seem to pull it off. We stay when there are red flags all over. We stay when we know we should walk out but it gets to be too late and now emotions and feelings come into play. Or we just don’t really give a damn so we treat the person like crap. But why are people starting out gong hoe but lose interest so quickly because you first off need to keep the want there by both parties and you have to see if you two mesh well as a couple. Are you two compatible? If you aren’t then somewhere down the line you are going to start annoying one another and this is the beginning to the end. You shouldn’t lose who you are, have to change for the person to accept you and you definitely should not bow down and lose your identity to speak and be you. By all means you have to be yourself but we aren’t learning to be good partners many times and this is the problem. To know how to fulfill your partners needs and wants emotionally, physically and mentally. Some of us act a fool, not knowing how to keep your man or woman and then boo hoo when they are gone and you are alone. You have to be the woman, the woman that knows how to conduct herself to keep that man. And if you didn’t learn at home then in my series I will be teaching you. You need to be a lady, but that can have kick ass fun and tend to her house and her man. Now a man needs to be a gentleman. A gentleman that can make his woman smile before he even touches he body. Remember the way to a woman’s heart is to simulate her mind with romance, truth and love. But make sure you are there for the long haul and not be a phony by saying these words to get some ass. If you do this you are just an asshole. And woman don’t play the I would do anything for you until you got your man hooked and then you do a 180 and leave him saying this isn’t the girl I met. In the next article I will be teaching both the guys and the girls how your behavior plays a big part on making it to the long haul. Barbara Jeanne xo

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