When your Partner Shows no Signs of Care

When a couple first meet, there are so many signs that show that you both are into the relationship. You are both so happy to see each other. Texting is still fun. Hearing their voice is music to your ears. Enjoying each other’s company, can't get enough of each other. What a great feeling this is. As times goes by, things mellow out a bit and you two become a nice couple, still in tune, having good conversation. Doing what couples do, and think that the norm is watching TV, going to the store and visiting family. You two may have sandwich night 2 nights; you cook two nights and the other you go out to eat. Whatever it is, the point is your relationship is becoming a bit stale. Then without notice things start to change. This person that you felt so close to seems to be pulling away a bit. You can't find the reason or the cause. Your relationship may continue, it's how it is supposed to be right? You may either stay together as a couple, live together a couple, or the big one...gets married. You know you are supposed to love the person, but as time goes by how much love are you really showing the other person. Are you being attentive to all their needs, and it goes both ways. If one stops, the cycle is broken and this is where troubles set in. I have helped couples that this has become an issue. A couple I helped, the woman said she would purposely walk in front of her husband naked, hoping he would want her. He would not even notice. In one situation a football game happened to be on...she stood there butt naked... he asked her to move aside and said he could not see the TV. She was upset and hurt. When most men see...let's be blunt..pussy... they jump on it. So something is going wrong. As the ladies they seem to have a head ache when they think they might have to have sex. What happens to these couples? What has changed? Probably you both have. As a couple, what do you feel is missing? Has one of you lost that loving feeling, lost the feeling to want to be there? These are questions that you need to ask. I ask you what has changed. What I think. Your relationship has lost the fun.. The communication, of what you both crave. You both used to make it a point to know what your partner needs were. So if it is worth saving what you have, you need to go back and revaluate what each other are missing what their needs are. If you care enough to find out what's going on, do so. xo Barbara Jeanne