You Think You're Ready To Move On From Your Relationship (Something to Think About)

So you feel as though you have had enough to the point that you are ready to leave. Before you call it quits you truly need to make sure that once you walk through the door you are not going to regret it. Why do I say this because many people do regret it and have second thoughts? And believe it or not many men feel the impact harder than women. Women feel it in the beginning. If a woman hasn’t found another love when the break up occurs then she feels more pain, or if she is not the one that is initiating the break up. But once she has moved on she is pretty much good to go. She will cry a river and ponder every equation in her head but once she finally lets the pain go, she can and will move on. She may think back when a break up occurs in the future but very seldom if her love life is up and running does she feel the impact long after. Now a man can want the break up. Think he’s other half is crazy and can’t wait to be out of the union. He can say he is so over her. But when he does break free it will hit him and he will remember the good times. Maybe even take the blame, if he feels it could have been him. Now if he’s life doesn’t go has planned and move forward men have a tendency to get depressed. They ponder what they did. They waited so long to find the right woman and now they let her go. They may even say she was the right one when they look back years from now. One big problem with this it doesn’t allow the man to move on to another woman and the woman might be beautiful, brilliant and in he’s head he can’t pull this new relationship off. No matter how wonderful it might be. This is the difference between men and women. Do keep in mind any relationship you go into will have their problems and lose that newness that you felt for the person. But if you go into a relationship that is better and brings you much more happiness then you did right for you and you partner. It is very hard to find a good healthy relationship to last a lifetime. And every relationship requires work. So you can conquer a beautiful union if you put your heart into it and what you might finally figure out is how to get back every lasting love. Barbara Jeanne xo