Pick Your Battles Wisely (So You Don't Lose Your Relationship)
It seems in today’s society couples argue until they ruin a relationship. It is more important to prove you are right then to keep your relationship intact. Women do like to nag a bit and men get lazy and truly believe when they have a lady in a relationship they will take all their bullshit. Two wrongs don’t make a right and it never will. When an argument does occur we do not stay on the one topic. We seem to go to past arguments and all the wrongs things that your mate has done in the pass, then through in the things that bother you. It is making this fight hit way below the belt and it stays on both of this once happy couple mind. So why do we sabotage something that was so good? We don’t think and we for some reason think we are right and have to prove it. The thing is that if this situation happens a lot, the relationship is doomed. If you don’t learn you will go into another and the same consequences will happen. The sad part is one day you will wake up and think you may have went overboard and you will lost a good thing. So the next time you are ready to battle think is it worth losing a relationship over winning an argument. Pick your battle wisely. XO Barbara Jeanne