Let Me Give You the Tools to Find Love: It's Time, A New Year...

A new year is upon us and what has changed since last year? Well let’s say that will be up to each and every one of us. One thing that hasn’t changed is that people want to find another. But what they truly want to find I’m not sure. Is it love, a relationship or is it just sex? What they want to find in another is very questionable and I hear it daily. Why do I say that? For one the ratio of singles to relationships is 70% to 30%. That being there is a lot of single people out there. Although there are many dating and social sites out there, what is it we are really looking for from people? Let’s make it the year to be brutally honest. I have seen so many broken hearts last year thinking that they found love only to be hurt. The hurt comes from a person truly investing time in someone saying they are looking to be loved. But they either aren’t being honest, can’t or don’t want to commit or they are playing with people’s emotions. Sometimes so easily they don’t even realize, or maybe they do which makes them suck as a person. There can’t be a relationship police to go around and tell everyone off that is deceiving people. There can be someone that shows you how to be aware of the red flags and that is where I come in. This year I am going to teach people when to walk away before you invest too many feeling and too much time. When you see one red flag that is the warning sign to walk away, yes I would say tough love but put it this way. If a person is interested they will be there for you front and center. They don’t come around one day I’m here and the next you are waiting to hear from them. Nor would you have a relationship where they disappear and you are wondering where they went and puff oh here they are again because they either didn’t find someone else or they need a fill in until they find the next. Do not allow to be played with and if you are not sure listen to what I have to say and you will first off learn the signs to run and second learn to find the people that are ready for love. You can find love but you need to have the tools to know when it’s real and when it’s not. And I will give you the tools to find and achieve a real healthy happy relationship. Barbara Jeanne xo