Dating Sites?

The population of single people of all ages, seems to be turning to dating site for meeting their soul mate. We fill out a questionaire form, put up our best picture and wait for the dates to roll in. For some it does happen easily. For others, not so much. What do you do when you sign on and you have very few callers, do you become upset, of course you would, that would be only natural. I have heard people doing crazy things. Putting up a picture from twenty years ago. and that would be their main profile picture as well. Making the picture so dark, you couldn't see with a flash light. The best one that i have heard, is putting up someones elses picture and pose it as themselves. Hum, like at some point, the person you meet, isn't going to realize.  Men especially do this one. I mean to drop a couple years, okay , but to drop a decade. Hello, what are you thinking. So your sites up and you start talking, but it seems like alot of people I know seem to talk and talk and talk. Then after they are finally all talked out, they plan the date to only realize, it is a no go. I think that is what they may be afraid of and wait so long for the date.So it is best to email, talk and meet. Why waste time. Although, I think that is exactly what people want t o do. Just talk. Not so much date. So dating sites are chat sites during the week and you may get a date if the person you are talking to, doesn't have another date,  their children, respectfully so. or other plans. If they do and don't have time for you, you are in for another week of chatting. They need to make the questionaire a bit clearer. They need to have a box for strictly chat, stritcly dating, a bitter column, not ready to move on. Or a very selfish, I have little time for anyone else but myself box. Let us not forget, I date many people and will continue so don't get your hopes up high box. So these are all the feed back that I have gotten. Oh lastly, I have no time for you but let us IM each other after dinner all night until I am tired box. See there are so many boxes they seem to be leaving out. Oh and last but not least, the dating with absolutely no chance of commitment box. If thy added these boxes, maybe things would run alittle smother on these dating sites, people would not waste their precious time. Maybe if you could also be more honest, we wouldn't need all these boxes. Either way, are dating sites working. Just asked all those people they show in the commerical. If so many couple made it. then why do they keep showing the same couples in different commercials. Just a thought! XO Barbara Jeanne