Unselfish Love?

So what does it take to have a healthy long lasting forever relationship? To be unselfish and to put your partners needs before yours at times. This is something that people don't seem to be doing, why? We are in a generation that we see our parents not wanting to do or give, so that is what we are learning in love. What we need to do is that gutt feeling you get when you first are in love. The way you act and all those things you would do for your new love is what we need to carry on throughout the distance of the relationship. Xo Barbara Jeanne