Can't Seem to Find Mr. or Ms. Right, How to Have a Better Chance!

                 So we all say we can’t find a good man or woman but you got to think would you want to be with you? Are you girlfriend, boyfriend material? Are you marriage material? Are you ready to love someone unconditional? This means through the good times bad times, because this is where most couples tend to break. When the money flow slows down and the fun times aren’t going as well. It’s when the good times stop so does the loving and with this we seem to find all the faults of the other person. But then again when we are stress we tend to think about the situation and what we are going through and not our partner. We have got to think of what we are giving, what we are getting is it on the same page or close. And if the love is gone and you have tried I say keep going. This is unless you have a family then you give it all you got and if it still doesn’t work out then you got to keep going. We have one life to live. One life to be happy and doing so we have to open up our eyes and our hearts and not just see what we want to see, what we want to have but those that might give you the world and in doing so, you might just fall for someone that you wouldn’t think of. But lastly if you don’t think that you are ready to give, don’t drag another into your confusion of uncertainty. Be honest to yourself and the person you brought or allowed into your life, this way both parties have less chance of getting hurt, and it makes it easier to find the people that are on your page. In knowing that you both are on the same page that gives you a better start and a better chance of moving forward into what it is you are looking for. Barbara Jeanne xo