Love Being In Your Own Skin...It's Important to Love You!

At the mall I saw a girl in her 30s that had on a mini skirt, thigh hi boots, lace stockings and a leather jacket to her waist. I turned to her and said you rock. The girl working at the store proceeded to say the same. Although no one at the mall had anything on close to what she was wearing, she felt so comfortable in her own skin, meaning wearing her own unique outfit. I hope to teach men and woman to be confident. It doesn't matter if you are butt naked, dressed in your own unique style or wearing comfy clothes, I hope and want you to feel confident in your own skin! Believe it or not, you are harder on your body than the people that truly care about. Even though you do care what people think about you... at least your partner, you need to love yourself, this is most important!  BARABARA JEANNE xo

It's In His Kiss

Did you ever wonder does he love me? When we were young we used to do the flower, he loves me he loves me not. As adults that method doesn't exactly seem to really be accurate. So how do we know? It is that song, it's in his kiss. Men think kissing is a very intimate. Take notice to the way he kisses you, with passion, romantically or is it a peck, a kiss on the forehead or cheek. You can give him the signal you don't want to be kissed by pushing him away and after a while, he may lose interest. So if you love him and he loves you kiss away, it can be hot and romantic. Good foreplay can lead to more sensual, sexual fun time. Sometimes you just want that, I love you kiss and sometimes you want that old fashion high school kiss tongue and all. Either way the way a person feels, man or woman, it's in their kiss. xo Barbara Jeanne

Pay It Forward

Say if you were in need and someone gave you and hand and you were so grateful that the next time you saw someone else in need you help them. Today I saw a girl leaving work at midnight, she was on her bike, and it was freezing. I offered her a ride, she declined. Then I saw she had no gloves, I offered her gloves, she said no again, but i gave her my gloves, and she smiled and said thank you. It's so important to me; this truly is close to my heart. I lend a hand and try to help every chance I can. So please next time you see someone in need, don't pass them by, thinking it's not your business, or someone else will help. You do and hopefully it will be paid forward. God Bless xo BARBARA JEANNE

Holidays time for love

Holidays are a time to be merry. For those that are single rock it alone. You do not need a partner to enjoy, but I know it makes it feel a bit more loving. So get dressed and get out. It's the perfect time. You can dress you best to impress. Dress sexy, or handsome and hopefully, you'll be kissing someone happy new year’s! xo Barbara Jeanne

Couple's That Make It Truly Rock! (Here's How)

When I see couples in their 70's and 80's, walking together holding hands, I think WOW they rock, that is what I want. People live their lives at times thinking they may not need anyone, may be too picky, or don't think they should settle. Not realizing that one day, they will be old and alone. I see so many couples heading for disaster by the way the talk and treat one another. The strange thing is most people don’t treat or behave this way with others yet they’re quick to bark and snap at their partner. Almost it they dislike this person they sleep next to each night, if one hasn’t already chosen another spot to rest their head.  We need to step back and think are we really ready to throw away a relationship because I have to say, it is very hard to find a relationship to hold near and dear to make it for the rest of your life. The pickings are limited, definitely not as easy as you think might think. So I tell everyone I counsel before you jump out make sure you will not be kicking yourself one day and that you are 100% ready with now doubts. I am not saying by any means stay and be unhappy. We all have one life and we should all be happy we deserve that in life, but make sure you are okay to be alone. Also do not find a backup before you leave, that is just down right wrong. If you have the opportunity to love, love and love hard. It’s one of the most rewarding gifts to give and receive. I gave advice to a man awhile ago; he said he used to go around like he was single when he was married. Partying, running with the boys, thinking he was the shit. At 52, he came to me and said now that he wants to find a lady to love, it's so hard and nobody wanted him. The sadness in his face broke my heart. I must add, he was a nice looking man with a good heart and good savings, you would think he would be a good catch. It truly broke my heart when he passed away from cancer at 58 alone. Dedicated to Mr. Strong...RIP and God Bless. Barbara Jeanne xo