Giving Head to Your Man (Step by Step)

Giving head is a preference. You Like it, you don't, you can take it or leave it, or you absolutely hate it. If it is something that your man really wants and I am sure he does, then woman should learn to like it, or atleast do it. Because your man really likes it, big time. If there is something that you don't like in that area ladies, you are the one going down there, so you have the right to say. Like if he needs to weed wack. Or if he needs to wipe the back door alittle more, men don't get upset, please do. This way it can be more pleasurable for both of you and your woman. Men once you cum, it ours, so if we spit it out or swallow, why should you care. You're done with it. Sometimes cum can be very bitter, so as long as you are pleased with the performance, relax and if the women wants to spit it out so be it. Also, sometimes woman don't know what you like so guide them, it might make the encounter better for you and easier for the female. Which will be a delight for some woman that aren't crazy about going down. Last thing, don't push a girls (womans) heads down to your penis, that is annoying and rude. We all know where it's at. For some reason if you won't ladies, then don't expext the favor in return. But what woman would say no, especially if your man gives you really good head? Especially if the man is really good, if you know what I mean. So lastly if you are unsure how to give head practice on a cucumber it's hopefully the closest to the penis. Even an ice pop would do the trick. So here we go. Swirl you tongue all around the penis, up and down and all around. Hold your hand at the shaft of the penis. As you are holding it slide it as far as you can down your throat. Tickle the penis with your tongue. Now you are going to take your hand and swirl it up and down from top to bottom while you are licking the penis. Make sure the area is nice and wet. Use your spit or water. Bring the water or drink into the room, so it's there. You have to get a rhythm going. Once you got that down don't stop keep the pattern up. Listen to hear if he's breathing heavy or moaning. If not ask him. Act like you are enjoying it, you moan as well. It will help to make him cum faster. Lastly has he is getting more excited and getting ready to climax, go a bit faster and keep it up until he cums. And know practice makes perfect. Barbara Jeanne xo

Pretty Woman? Or What's Inside

Okay I'm sure everyone has seen the movie, Pretty Woman, with Richard Gere and Julia Roberts, if for some reason you haven't for goodness sake you must. For those that have, we all know it was about a street walker ending up. pretty much with the prince. What you see was he wined and dined her and bought her beautiful things. In return, she was to be his date for the week. She agreed, but what he got was a whole lot more and I am not talking about the sex. He got a woman that although not in the best place in life, she was extremely happy. She loved life. she built his confidence up. In such a way that the man, became a better peron. She showed him how to love life. She was excited about the little things. Going to the polo match, stomping on grass, in no shoes and a pretty new clothes. Yet she didn't ask why, she didn't complain. She enjoyed herself and laughed. She mad him fall in love with her insides, her heart and her mind. It helped that she had hair to die for and her legs were long enough to put around his entire body. If you remembered the scene, it was in the bath tub. Where she was washing his body. The point, yes this a movie and we are reality, but why can't you take a bath and wash your man and let him wash you. Youir don't have to be a billionaire to be treated it like one.To build you mates confidence. To give each other massages. To let you mate know that you got their back. Woman tend to nag so much. I am sorry, but I see it everyday. At times, i like to tell them shut the f*** up. It's horrible and you should record yourself sometime. On womans behalf, sometimes the men really could use a good wake up call. I know we aren't Julia Roberts or Richard Gere, but if we do remember the first person to get their prince was cinderella and that was a fairy tale. We all know we can't live in the magic kingdom, but we can live in a place where we are happy. Where? Wherever you are, happiness comes from within you. xo barbara jeanne

You Like A Guy & He Like's You ( Why Are You Still Unsure?)

You go on a date on with a guy; you may even starting dating this guy and you really like him. You feel like the two of you are connecting, getting closer. You are starting to maybe even fall for this guy. He seems to be giving you the same vibe as you are feeling for him, that he’s really seems to like you. Then something changes, he seems to have cold feet and you start hearing less from him.  Things have been going great, so you aren't sure why, or what’s going on in his head. You two are having fun, laughing and getting along great when you are together. When he leaves though, he’s leaving with the feeling that he is putting distance between the two of you. Everything seems fine on your end but he’s not talking, so you don’t why the change. So what may be the problem? Who the hell knows, you do know your feelings haven’t change but has he’s?  Most women go into a relationship, and know what they want. If they like a guy as time goes by the give more and more of their heart to the guy they are digging. Some men go in too fast and then all of a sudden they feel like they are in too deep. Maybe the feeling they like too much, or falling to fast and don’t like not being in control.  The may have commitment issue or broke up with someone they are not quite over yet. Most women give it their all in a relationship, so when they are done they may have their cry but if a new man is to comes in the picture they will take that chance. If a man has just gotten out of a relationship they tend to remember all the things they could have done to avoid the break up. Men seem to hold on to the memory of what was. It could even be, they want to see what else is out there. First off why do men feel they have to when things are going so right with you? Why can't men be satisfied with one damn woman? Second, when they realize there isn't crap out there, or it is hard to match two people together. Their ass comes calling you back. With hi, how are you. You are thinking, why now? You didn’t care when you dump my ass and I was calling you. You didn’t care to return my phone calls or texts. All of a sudden they care. So it is up to us woman to decide are we going to give these men another chance, or will they bail as easy as they did the first time. The answer is yes, unless they are truly ready. These men will do it again and why, because we all allowed them to come back to us too easily. The circle is a man is with you, leaves you and comes back. So what can we do that can change the chance that it will not happen again. Don't put them first, until they have earned it. You don't need them; remember you made it without them up until the point the two of you met. So, if they are back, it is either you are better than what they found, or they might have actually missed you. Either way, it is your chance to find out before you give your time and your heart all over again. Ask them why did they leave and why are they back. Then it is you decision. Be careful and wise. Be yourself and not bitchy. Just be strong and remember you forgive but you don't forget. You can forget when you either know they have done right by you and truly care, then the time might be right to let it go! Barbara Jeanne XO

How To Tell Your Partner You Have Had A Change Of Heart

 People are together as a couple but at some point one may have a change of heart. It is easy for that person to walk away and start a new life. What about the person you left behind? They probably are very hurt, crying, maybe even be a bit confused. If you break someone’s heart you need to be gentle in how you tell them, with compassion and care. You loved this person at one time. Remember this when you are leaving that you may need to console this person. How do you handle this fragile situation? You don't want to give this person you are leaving false hope but you should want them to know you truly did care and maybe why you are leaving. This may help with them having a little bit of closer. Sometimes people leave another one’s life not letting them know why and it leaves them confused, baffled thinking what the heck happened, I thought we were happy. So do tell them that you know they are going through sadness and that you have caused it. To accept to them you are taking the responsibility that you are doing so. They now know you cared enough to take time to see if they are okay. By doing these simple things you are letting them know, first it is over, and second to move on. Most important that you still respect and care that they are hurting. So many times when people leave a relationship, they just bail, leaving the person being left behind devastated. By taking time to put closure they can move on in there head as well as their heart, hopefully in less time. It also is the right thing to do. Leaving someone hurt without an explanation, is more hurtful. So if you have changes of heart take the time and in the long run, its good karma. Because bad karma can be a bitch! BARBARA JEANNE xo

10 Things to Please a Woman in Bed

1. Men, be more attentive during the day time. A hug, a kiss. Show your lady that you love and care. She will want to have sex, and the good knd.
2. Don't wear though clothes that should of been thrown out long ago all through the day. Like your the man, you're not. You look sloppy. You like us woman to look good for you. Well so do we. If you take time to dress to impress atleast once in awhile, it makes you look not only handsome, If you tell us your are doing it for your lady. She will think, you are the man.
3. Take a shower before sex, if you are stinky. We woman make it a point to do it for you men. please do the same. If your lady doesn't like the scruffy look on your face, take time to shave. We girls do it for you.
4. Please don't get into bed and try to stick your penis in when your woman is all dry, it not only shows us no care, it hurts. Stop spitting on your hand to make us wet, men that is not foreplay it is just a quick way to get it in and to us girl take the fun out of it.
5. Quikies are fun but we still like our nipples to be licked, go down on us, you like woman to go down on you, return the favor.
6. That leads me to this one men...please groom yourselves. The worse is to go down on your man and have hair in your teeth, Come on, that is jusy nasty. Pulling your hair from the back of our throat. Yuck!
7. Wine and dine us, once in awhile. I know times are tough but it helps. Geez even make us dinner.  It helps us woman get in the mood if we are alittle tipsy, but the point is not to just drink. Be romantic, that will lead to more passionate sex. Having fun on the outside will lead you to have more fun in the inside.
8. Communicate in every way. Woman like to have stimulaing coversations with their man, also in the bedroom. Ask your lady what feels good. When you hear her moaning, don't move stop thats hammer time. Meaning thats her spot now stay there and go to it. Does she like it soft and slow or hard and fast. If you have a pleased woman, she'll be coming back for more.   
9. Woman like for the man to be our protector. That they can take care of the manly business that we woman feel is a mans job. When you leave it for us woman to do, we feel like we are doing your job and in the long run, woman can start to resent having to do your job, which leads to good night and lights out. 
10.  When making love make your woman feel beautiful. Tell her she looks beautiful. Her eyes look amazing in the light. Her skin feels so incredible. Touch her all over. Stroke her hair. Softly slide you hands around her whole entire body. When you go for target spots, right to the crotch and grab it like a hand bag, it feel like just that. Of course, there are the times sex can be a bit passionate and aggessive but for most woman they like it changed up a bit. Not always the same thing or positon. So men I hope this gives you some ideas...if you needed help in this area xo Barbara Jeanne