TRULY FOR YOU FROM ME WITH LOVE

I've been writing all these relationship articles in hope to bring couples together. I hope that couples that were already married know that it is a lot of work but what you get in the return is worth the effort. I tried to expressed how being in love feels absolutely amazing. I just don't think people really care until it is too late. Thinking, getting by in life, in a relationship is just fine. I'm not even sure some people know how to have a good relationship and enjoy their partner as a best friend and a lover. You may read my articles and feel they may sound like a broken record but if I could save a marriage, a relationship. Even if I can bring two people together, or help a person or couple through a problem. To help someone feel better, makes me feel what I am doing is worth the time and effort. Some people may not be sure what my purpose is, and it is to make each and everyone feel they are so very precious. To know how thankful I am to each and every one that takes time to come to my site. Please watch loved, being in the best relationship possible and how to work to get this. Please look for the new changes coming. Much love to all that view my site. xo Love Barbara Jeanne

How do You Know She Is Ms. Right or Wrong?

So many times men see a woman and in an instance can fall and may even think that's the one. It also might be more of a sexual feeling. First off men feel they want to meet, they do the talk and the walk and next thing you have this woman that you just had to have. You then get to know her but woman can put up an act very easily. They love the teams you love. They also like anything and everything you like hoping you will fall and become a couple. The only problem girls are easier to fool a guy then men. Men, what you see pretty much is what you get. You may not notice those things ladies that things weren't too great but you were too distracted by trying to get this man. Anyway, back to the topic. So this woman you cherish is just a dream and you do the move in or even the big one you two get married. Somehow this precious gem changes into a nag, a bitch, doesn't clean, cook or like anything you thought she liked. Why did she wait to expose herself because that is how some woman gets men? That is Ms. Wrong. Ms. Right could be on the next bar stool, next row in church or standing in front of the girl you are looking to meet. So how do you pick out Ms. Right, don't go for just looks, gives other woman a chance that you might not and be open to a different type of woman then you might usually go for. If they seem sincere and not as if they are trying to impress you, that is a keeper. If she gives you back as much as you give her, or close. If she is kind and considerate to others and puts others needs including yours at times first, that is a keeper. If she is bitchy and nags now, then why would you think it will change? That will only get worse and you will be kicking yourself. Ms. Right is the one that can just lay with you and you fit, you are comfortable and can spend days just doing nothing and have fun. We have to start picking the right person from the get go then maybe we have a chance for that always and forever and it truly is a great feeling. Barbara Jeanne xo

How do You Know He's Mr. Right or Wrong?

You meet a guy that you really dig, and you so want him to be feeling the same way. You like him so much that everything that he might to that either puzzles you or you might think it may be a no no, you still keep on keeping on with liking him. You like him so much that you put all this little things on the back burner, because for some reason in your mind, you already set it up that he is the one. You overlook all those things that might not put a smile on your face and keep putting it on the back burner, Soon your burners are all filled up, oven and broiler but you seem to not want to let go yet. So you keep investing your good energy and heart to a man that does not deserve it. So who can that be? This would be Mr. Wrong. Why? Mr. Right will make your heart warm and fuzzy and make your face smile with a happy loving sensation. He will make you feel good about yourself and he will want to do for you. Make you feel beautiful and precious because to him you are. He will be by your side and be there when you need. Listen to you when you talk and actually care. He won't avoid you calls like Mr. Wrong. He will want to hear your voice. You don't have to second guess Mr. Wrong because he shows you how much he cares for you. Why do we pick the wrong one, or as some might say the bad boy? Stupidity? Maybe we want what is hard to get, the chase as if Mr. Right is worth more because he is harder to get. That is not the case at all. Mr. Wrong will treat you exactly like that, wrong. If you are truly looking for Mr. always and forever, then you need to remember, you will be chasing Mr. Wrong, he will never in the long run be what you need or want. Being loved is the most wonderful feeling, it builds you self esteem and makes you feel..well...good...So in closing, let me express this one last time, do you want to be happy and loved or do you want to feel like you are fighting to be loved, it is your choice. Don't waste time and energy with the wrong person, sometimes you get so stuck and it takes twice as long to get away and stop wanting that jerk. Xo Barbara Jeanne

Which Is The Perfect Person?

What if you had the perfect person? The person that adores you, that would do anything for you. They would do everything and anything to assure your happiness. Take care of you and be there by your side till the end. You knew this person would always treasure you and your relationship. You had fun with this person and the made you feel so comfortable, for you to be yourself. That you would never have to worry what you said and if you wanted to stay in bed in you pajamas all day, in fact for days would be just fine. In their eyes you are always beautiful. Wait...you also had another person that was the one that got you excited made you heart race. You couldn't wait to have their arms around you. You loved everything about the person. The way they looked, the way they made you feel and their charm. You two had a connection that you just clicked from the moment you two met, other than that you had no security. They had so many obligations to put you first. You may not be first ever because of children, their job, or maybe that is their personality. But when you did talk the spark remains always. Who would you choose? Which to you would be the right, healthy choice? If you are having trouble deciding or picked person number two, sorry to say eventually you would be disappointed. When choosing a mate, don't think Mr. or Ms. Now, think of who would be best for the long haul. You can't be hundred percent positive that the first one I described would change a bit but you have a better chance of lasting. The second one is more passion which changes, the first on could for forever lasting. If you are looking for a brief relationship of passion, number two is for you. If you are looking for the long haul number one is the one. It's you call, just giving you the heads up, but I have had both and I like being put first and adored, you know it's a really good feeling. xo Barbara Jeanne

Your Partner Should Make You Feel Perfect!

Two people meet and if they click, they try to be everything they think the one they dig likes. You want to be there everything, especially in the beginning. You want to be funny, happy, silly, pretty, handsome, kind, generous and everything in-between. The big problem is that if you aren't yourself eventually you have to be and your true colors have to come out. Now if the two of you still like what you see then you move on and become an official couple. Things are great but somewhere down the road they change. We can't say when it is going to happen but somehow for some reason it does. It could be one just loses those extreme feeling that made you a great couple at one time or the way you two treat one another. Either way we have to learn that we should be only praising our partners. We should be lifting them up to higher levels, making them feel, handsome, beautiful not degrading them to lose their self-esteem. You don’t want to feel as if you are not pretty or not enough man. We have to learn to not see our partners as the enemy or someone you try to spend as little amount of time with them and learn to be each other best friend. The person you can't wait to see. To hold and touch and to be excited to hang out with. How do we achieve such a goal? Don't judge the person you are supposed to love with all your heart. If you make them feel special like a princess or queen, they should be happy to treat you nothing less than their prince or king. xo Barbara Jeanne