Tonight, out and about. I saw a very pretty girl. Beautiful blue eyes, flowing healthy hair and a unforgettable smile. With a cute little boy by her side. Why am I telling you about someone that is not important to you and you don't know. Because, although you can tell she had the confidence from her younger days. She had uncertainty from being over weight. Which seemed sad, pulling her shirt down to hide her body. Everybodies body changes as we grow older. Hormones change. Woman have children and men may have a few too many beers. Woman may have had a a few too many beers as well. The point is that we need to take care of ourselves. We need to encourage love ones that you see getting out of control. So many people come to me for help, and if they would just realize, that its doesn't start by having a baby. That is a myth, We get out of shape, because we continue to use that as an excuse. Men, there is not excuse, you body is not put through the ringer. Yes ladies you have your grace period but I know everyone I ever trainer says they don't like all those extra ponds. In merchandising, designers are actually making clothes bigger and putting a smaller size on it . Even for me, being 5 '7" and size 5. I find myself in a size zero. So in actuality, it is making us feel better but not helping our waist line. We need a wake up call, to know being over weight is not just a vain issue, it is a health issue. If you watch Dr Ox, he shows how old your insides are but you habits, including eatting. Find a buddy system to help with better eatting and exercise, or you can reach out to me. xo Barbara Jeanne